Sex related activities:


Massage, hugging, touching

Masturbation

Kissing with closed mouth

Rubbing against each other

Having fantasies by thinking about sex

Kissing the body not on sexual areas or open sores

 

Some activities which may lead to sexual intercourse between partners. Mind you, may lead you does not necessarily mean that you will have sexual intercourse after them. In many cases, these emotions expressed are enough for both partners to express their love for each other.

Unsafe Sexual Activites


Sex without Condoms – Unless you and your partner are confirmed that neither of you have any STD and you are using a medicine incase you do not want to get pregnant.

Using Used Condoms or continuing to use the same condoms after the first time or after it has broken

Avoid getting body fluids inside the body of the other person like semen, blood or urine inside open sores, open cuts, vagina or anus.

Most common reasons given for having Unsafe Sex

It spoils the fun, romance and sexual inticement

Hey, I am absolutely normal and clean, I am not infected

This is my first time

I hardly ever have sex, I am safe

I am safe

And I thought we loved each other

It feels like we more connected to each other without the condom

I am on pills, don’t worry

Biggest of all – “TRUST ME”, “DON’T YOU TRUST ME DARLING”

Most common phrases used to convince your partner to have safe sex

Let us be safe together

I am aware that you enjoy the real skin to skin feeling, but lets give this a shot and see if it works for us.

Lets try it, just for kicks, see how it feels.

I’ll help you wear it

If I wear it, I assure you I will last longer

I will feel very special if you wear it.

How would you know if I have any STD (sexually transmitted disease)?

I don’t think we are ready to have a baby, just yet

If we have sex with it, I can offer myself to you in several flavors. Here, choose…

I’m 28 and, since I came off the pill, I’ve stopped having periods. I know I’m not pregnant, so what’s going on?

It can take a month or two for your cycle to return to normal, but if three months go by without a period, you should talk to your GP. Stress, Low Weight, hormonal imbalances and excessive exercise can all cause periods to stop, but for around in 1,000 under-30′s its due to premature ovarian failure (early menopause).

Lately, I’ve found penetrative sex extremely painful. Is it a problem that will pass, or do I need help?

The problem with leaving it is that painful sex can be self-perpetuating. If it hurts once and you fear it will hurt again, you may tense your vaginal muscles, making any pain much worse. If the pain only occurs during deep penetration, there may be inflammation caused by endometriosis, pelvic inflammatory disease, or even IBS. Do see your GP for a full check-up.

How to Use a Condom?

  1. Open it from a side
  2. Hold it the right way so it can roll down
  3. Keep the Tip air free at all times
  4. Start rolling it down while keeping the tip air free
  5. Roll it down your banana till the end, if its nice and tight. You’re Ready !!!
  6. After Happy hour remove it backwards…
  7. Keep the juice at the top. Never touch your partner with the condom or your banana !
  8. Make a knot and Throw it away…

Remember Better Safe than Sorry

How to Use a Condom – VIDEO

 

I adore my boyfriend, but I can’t seem to climax when we have sex – What can i do about this?

If you’ve never climaxed with a partner, look at your expectations of sex – not every woman climaxes during intercourse and you may need more clitoral stimulation. Climaxing can also be to do with learning to let go of your inhibitions – and not just in bed. Seeing a sex therapist can help you with this and any other specific problems in your current relationship